When he's thoughtless. Which, I agree, seems to be his default -- his and a lot of people here. I'm not excusing it, just saying it's more common than not.
It does, yes. And plenty of inconsiderate ones. And plenty of people in-between. Maybe it's a fault, but I want to believe anyone can improve and be kinder and more thoughtful.
There's a door between the main room and the bathroom. And 36 hours is a REALLY long time. Especially with us four.
Well, it sounds like you were hopeful regardless. Thus far for us the only irritating thing is the laundry, so I can't imagine how hard it is for Harry.
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Date: 2025-12-12 06:10 am (UTC)When he tries his best, sure. And when he doesn't?
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Date: 2025-12-12 03:42 pm (UTC)Exactly. I've always thought that's the problem, when he doesn't try, or acts on impulse or
Whatever.
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Date: 2025-12-12 04:00 pm (UTC)Or when he does whatever he wants in any given moment without stopping to think about other people for a single second. You can say it.
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Date: 2025-12-12 04:25 pm (UTC)[koby.]
When he's thoughtless. Which, I agree, seems to be his default -- his and a lot of people here. I'm not excusing it, just saying it's more common than not.
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Date: 2025-12-12 04:27 pm (UTC)Not for you. Not for me. Not for Harry. This place has plenty of considerate people.
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Date: 2025-12-12 05:09 pm (UTC)It does, yes. And plenty of inconsiderate ones. And plenty of people in-between.
Maybe it's a fault, but I want to believe anyone can improve and be kinder and more thoughtful.
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Date: 2025-12-12 09:00 pm (UTC)I agree with you. Anyone can, if they really want to.
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Date: 2025-12-13 04:10 am (UTC)It's harder for some than others. Two steps forward, one step back. I know it's frustrating.
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Date: 2025-12-13 04:38 am (UTC)We might have helped Harry. Because he was losing it.
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Date: 2025-12-13 05:09 am (UTC)Well, it sounds like you were hopeful regardless. Thus far for us the only irritating thing is the laundry, so I can't imagine how hard it is for Harry.
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Date: 2025-12-13 06:40 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2025-12-13 07:01 am (UTC)And you have Harry there.
You're telling me you usually go 36+ hours?
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Date: 2025-12-13 07:13 am (UTC)I did Lent, remember? I was completely clean in the army, too.
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Date: 2025-12-13 08:16 pm (UTC)But still. I feel like the other three could allow you two SOME privacy.
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Date: 2025-12-13 08:53 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2025-12-14 01:35 am (UTC)Right. That's completely ridiculous. Totally.
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Date: 2025-12-14 01:45 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2025-12-14 02:33 am (UTC)I'd invite them to join :)
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Date: 2025-12-14 02:52 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2025-12-14 03:25 am (UTC)I don't think I do either.
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Date: 2025-12-14 04:42 am (UTC)no subject
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Date: 2025-12-15 03:46 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2025-12-15 04:24 am (UTC)Very bad.
Does he behave particularly inhumanly?
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Date: 2025-12-15 04:33 am (UTC)I've been focused on Harry, I don't know.
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