[ The immediate apology takes the edge off of his cold snap. And since Tim seems open to self-reflection - ]
If you think someone you care about might feel some kind of way about who you're fucking, whether or not you care about their opinion right now, it's worth telling the person you're getting involved with.
It won't matter to everyone. But I think sooner or later it'll matter to you.
I've been trying to get over him and stop caring about what he thinks. I thought if I just acted like I didn't, then eventually, it would become true. But that hasn't worked.
Not that you need to hear about my indecisive nonsense. I'm sorry I put you in that position. It doesn't matter why I did it.
[ Which he should let be the line under it really, draw it there and start again back on a friendly level next time they run into one another. But an abandoned threesome isn't his only stake in this. ]
It's none of my business now, Tim, but you should figure that out. Before more people have to make your choices for you.
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Date: 2025-12-18 08:49 pm (UTC)Sorry. That was inappropriate.
I don't want to make a mess of your relationships either.
And every choice I make lately has been the wrong one, so thank you. For making it.
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Date: 2025-12-18 10:49 pm (UTC)If you think someone you care about might feel some kind of way about who you're fucking, whether or not you care about their opinion right now, it's worth telling the person you're getting involved with.
It won't matter to everyone. But I think sooner or later it'll matter to you.
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Date: 2025-12-18 11:01 pm (UTC)I've been trying to get over him and stop caring about what he thinks. I thought if I just acted like I didn't, then eventually, it would become true. But that hasn't worked.
Not that you need to hear about my indecisive nonsense. I'm sorry I put you in that position. It doesn't matter why I did it.
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Date: 2025-12-23 02:11 pm (UTC)[ Which he should let be the line under it really, draw it there and start again back on a friendly level next time they run into one another. But an abandoned threesome isn't his only stake in this. ]
It's none of my business now, Tim, but you should figure that out. Before more people have to make your choices for you.
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Date: 2025-12-23 09:10 pm (UTC)I'm figuring that out. I won't let that happen again.
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Date: 2025-12-26 02:58 pm (UTC)A little. I've set him up with somewhere to clear his head.
Good.
Good luck with it.
[ He can't imagine untangling all that's going to be easy. ]
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Date: 2025-12-26 06:25 pm (UTC)